in hopes of not coming across as completely cheesy and obnoxious, i kind of wanted to write about my thoughts on seeing the vow.
the entire movie, i kept thinking about how our lives are comprised of moments. a series of moments that shape us and mold us into who we are.
the movie is about a girl who loses her memory, but only a span of five years, so she basically only remembers her life up until right before she made critical choices in her life, like quitting law school and enrolling in art school, and breaking off an engagement with a guy who she loved but knew in her gut she wasn't in love with. as sappy of a movie as it is, the real core of it is thought provoking. for me anyways. coming from someone whose life has been shaped and molded by the tiny moments that i chose to make my own, to live an extraordinary life, rather than a life that was alright.
had i never changed my major back in april of 2007, i wouldn't have experienced the series of small, (at the time) meaningless moments that have forever impacted me. i would have never watched a stupid youtube video with jennifer, chelsea, and ali in the design lab, which would then lead to the most valuable friendships i've ever had in my life. i would have never had that moment with phil and jivan, the moment of creative inspiration, that led to crave. i would have never experienced the joy it was to stand in front of a room full of best friends and mentors that became my family, presenting my work in an art gallery, explaining to them how much they mean to me. i would have never stood in front of a room full of students, sharing with them, realizing i wanted to be a professor one day. i would have never built the family of friendships i have now. the people that accept my anti-social, introverted tendencies, but try their best to force me out of those stupid habits because they love being around me so much. those friends are the beat of my heart. i guess you could say i romanticize life a bit too much, but when it unfolds so wonderfully around you, how can you not enjoy it for every tiny, special moment that it is made up of? life is beautiful.
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